You might think you know who Howie Mandel is, but I challenge you to dig deeper and get to know the man behind the 40+ year comedy career, to understand that he goes beyond standup, and he might just be my guru. Comedy Wham’s Valerie Lopez recently sat down with Mandel via Zoom in anticipation of his upcoming Moontower Just for Laughs appearance April 19th, and the wisdom he imparted could’ve saved vulnerability and shame researcher Brené Brown a lot of time. Pair that with the tenacity and energy level that makes Tony Robins look like Cartman from South Park and you might be closer to the mark.
What’s interesting is how authenticity has given Mandel all of his big breaks. Mandel explains, “Everything I was ever expelled for, gotten in trouble for, angered people with, is what I seem to get paid with.” Getting on stage in the first place was driven by Mandel’s ADHD, he explains, “…. part of that is… kind of acting on impulse and not thinking of the ramifications… and that’s why I was on stage. ‘You should go on stage… Okay! ‘” Many of the mannerisms and bits we remember and love as Mandel’s stage persona were born out of his fears and his [now well publicized] OCD diagnosis. The giggling nervous laughing man on stage? His natural coping mechanism for stage fright. The rubber glove that we saw him inflate on his head? A glove he had always kept in his pocket due to germaphobia. Now these are part of the Mandel we love and expect, but they were crafted straight from the reality of his life.
While those things were incorporated into his act, the audience was not aware of the behind-the-scenes truth and struggle until years later when Mandel was inadvertently outed on-air for his OCD and germaphobia, during an appearance on The Howard Stern Show. Not realizing the incident took place live initially, when it was revealed that millions had just heard this very private matter live, Mandel was devastated. Fortunately, that encounter quickly lead to hundreds of fans coming out of the shadows to empathize and thank him for helping them with the same struggles.