Find the right mentor for you
Sure, you want someone in your corner, but you need the right person in your corner. Be discerning about your choice. Maybe your mentor is blowing smoke up your a$$. In any scene or industry, you'll find good people, bad actors, and snake oil salesmen. Don't just take someone's advice at face value, consider the person's credibility and how their guidance is relevant to your circumstances. And by the way, maybe 1 person isn't enough to be your mentor, maybe you need a team of mentors!
Is this person a good person?
Ellis Aych