Brandi Davis Finds the Silly
February 9, 2022
An Indoor Lady
Born in Amarillo, raised in Arlington, and ultimately settled in Austin, Texas, local comic Brandi Davis always felt naturally drawn to comedy due to familial influences. Her family members weren’t comics themselves, no, but many of them were, in fact, “awesome wild women” with a knack for humor and storytelling. “My aunt Diana, she likes to drink vodka cranberries, but whenever she has a couple, she’ll just start telling all these stories,” Davis explains, before adding wryly, “no one knows, like, how true any of it is.” Historical accuracy aside, Davis traces her own penchant for storytelling to the likes of Diana as well as her grandmother, who would tell the kinds of stories she could listen to over and over again.
As for Davis’s love of the stage, that can be traced back to being a self-professed “theater nerd” in high school. “But I wasn’t good at all,” she quickly clarifies. “I would never get cast in any shows we did. [Instead] I did all the sounds and prop stuff and lights and all the tech work, but I always really wanted to be [performing].” Still, between some formative improv experiences back then and a big ol’ crush on Tina Fey, Davis made the move to enroll in improv classes once she got to Austin. And, as many of you know, one thing leads to another, and suddenly an improv student finds herself experimenting in (*gasp*) stand up. “The very first time was bad as it is for everyone,” she admits. “It was 1:30 AM, there was one person [in the audience], and I’d never done stand up before.” To add insult to injury, she didn’t exactly feel welcome when she first started out. “[I]n the beginning, it can be kind of scary, ‘cause you don’t know anyone. And so, if you just go to one open mic where it just happens to be only white men…” Well, you get the idea; a lack of diversity can quickly leave one feeling alienated, especially for a queer woman in a sea of straight white dudes.
Luckily, Davis’s friend (and current open mic co-host!) Angelina Martin was there to offer her some words of encouragement. “She was like, ‘Brandi, just do five open mics a week for two months, and you’re gonna start getting booked on shows.’ And I did exactly what she told me to. And she’s like, ‘you’re gonna get addicted to it.’ And I did,” Davis says. In fact, the transition from improv to stand up was pretty darn smooth. “I just felt more comfortable on stage doing [stand up]. And pretty, like, early on, my peers were just really supportive of me … really encouraging. And so it made me think like, ‘Oh, I feel like I could do this,’” she recalls.
As for her muggle job, Davis daylights as a social worker. Though her first love was actually writing short stories, she was fueled by a sense of pragmatism toward a career with a more clear-cut path. Instead, inspired by her own personal and familial mental health issues, she attended college with the intent to become a therapist, before becoming acquainted with the wide-open field of social work and, in particular, homeless services. Still, she always maintains an air of silliness, finding humor in the little things, no matter the situation. “Social workers, we have to have humor,” she states, “and some dark humor, typically.”
That air of silliness was hopefully able to soften the blow of COVID-19, which certainly threw a wrench into her burgeoning stand-up career. “Before COVID, I felt like I was really achieving some of the goals I had,” she explains, “and I felt like I was just growing more as a comic and liking the jokes. I was writing more and just being able to experiment a little bit more onstage.” She had even just achieved the milestone of performing at Punch! Comedy at Cap City. To slam on the brakes so suddenly after hitting such a comfortable stride was more than tough, not to mention the loss of the community she’d grown to love. Of the quaran-times, she recalls, “I would just be kind of like sitting there in my house and be like, ‘Oh it’s Thursday. where would I be right now? I’d be at the Velveeta Room open mic.’ And then I’d be sad and like cry a little bit,” she recalls. But with all that free time to write, she’d at least get a lot of material out of the pandemic, right? …Right? Davis remembers thinking the same thing: “‘I should come out of COVID with a fresh hour.’” But between the lack of live mics to workshop material and not knowing when she’d even be able to perform again, “it just felt kind of useless,” she admits.
But as soon as Davis began to hit live mics again, the wellsprings for new material began flowing anew, even if she did have to take a little time to find her stage legs again. Indeed, recalling one of her first shows back at Cherrywood Coffee, she reminisces, “[T]here were so many people there and it was a big crowd. And it was just like, you can just feel all the energy. I felt like people were really excited to be gathering again and seeing something live. And I felt so nervous,” she confesses. “I felt like I’d never done stand up before in my life.”
Fortunately, it seems that there’s some serendipity in the relearning of it all: Davis concedes that one of her personal struggles in stand up is playing it safe, telling the same tried and true jokes until even she’s sick of hearing them. “So, it always feels good when I can throw out something I’ve been saying for a while. Like, ‘I don’t need to say that anymore.’” And this past year, she’s been surprisingly pleased with the new material that she’s crafted to fill those spaces. “And that’s always reassuring,” she adds, “because sometimes I feel like I write a funny joke that hits all the time. and I’m like, ‘I’m never gonna write another. It’s never gonna happen again.’”
Many of Davis’s jokes derive from her own uncomfortable and embarrassing personal experiences; this fact is especially satisfying for her because a lot of her jokes are “pretty queer,” as she puts it, but their fundamental humanity and relatability still make them surprisingly relatable to straight audiences. Still, she can’t help but profile her audiences just a little bit: “Anytime I see a couple audience members who look queer, I’m like, ‘It’s gonna be a good show,” Davis says, “…but I shouldn’t really judge crowds like that, because a lot of times I’m performing for almost entirely straight audiences, and they love it.” Davis even recalls a performance in Georgetown where the audience members were all in their 60s-70s. Though initially terrified that her jokes would all die a terrible death onstage, she quickly found that the crowd loved her, in all her raunchy, gay glory.
Davis isn’t planning on stopping anytime soon, either. In fact, we’re excited to see her work her way toward recording an album in the next few years. In the meantime, she’s still finding the joy (and silliness) in the little things, like getting to do live shows again. “…I love the audience, and I love, like, feeding off of each other,” she says. “And I feel like that’s what’s so beautiful about live theater is it’s like these people in this room, and they’re all experiencing this together, and it’s never gonna be — it’s never gonna happen like that in the same way again…” Even more distilled than that, Davis is relishing in the way it feels simply to make people laugh again. “I really think laughing is the best feeling that we can have that’s not, you know, like, drug-induced or, like, an orgasm.” As for us, we’re relishing in that contact high and near-post-coital-bliss of getting to see Davis out again, doing what she does best.
Follow Brandi
- Twitter — @lilbrandidavis
- Instagram — @brandidaviscomedy
- Facebook — Facebook.com/brandi.davis
- Do 512 — Do512.com/artists/brandi-davis
- Youtube — Youtube.com/BrandiDavis
Brandi can be seen and heard:
- Cackle Shack Open Mic — 8:30pm on Mondays at Lustre Pearl East
- JFL/Moontower Festival — April 2022
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